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SASH 2020 Presentation – Healthy Sexuality After Betrayal

The poem I read at the end of my presentation is below and can be found here –

An online blogger, Hollie Holden (2016), wrote the following poem –

Today I asked my body what she needed,

Which is a big deal

Considering my journey of

Not Really Asking That Much.

I thought she might need more water.

Or protein.

Or greens.

Or yoga.

Or supplements.

Or movement.

But as I stood in the shower

Reflecting on her stretch marks,

Her roundness where I would like flatness,

Her softness where I would like firmness,

All those conditioned wishes

That form a bundle of

Never-Quite-Rightness,

She whispered very gently:

Could you just love me like this?